Hi people out there, today, i would like you guys to share your view on relationship?
So what about relationship, I mean the suspicion in each other? Well, saying to have trust and faith is rather easy but doing it is always the opposite..

As I have been in a relationship, or i should say my first relationship, it is going to be three years soon..
And problems have never had a off day. So I wanna share my views and hope you guys would enlighten me as well..

Number One-
Boy: Did you check my phone?
Girl: Yes.
Boy:Whats that for?!
Girl: I saw you texting a girl, and you told me she was pretty, I feel insecure..
Boy: You really wan me to cheat, I spent my hours and days with you, why dont you believe me, she is my financial consultant and she had all my investment, I need to be in good term with her!
Girl: I understand *Feeling disheartening inside, she was perhaps finding comfort yet all she got was scolding*

Well, I feel that in this scenario, both party have their stand and rights, but true the girl didnt think that much, but the boy should have consider her feeling in as well? Who would want to see their bf cheat, so they prevent and became sensitive, I have got to say, we have a gut right feeling when we feel that the girl is interested in our man anot..hahhhaha, true?

Number Two-
Girl: *Just showered* Can you go and have ur bathe now, so we cna have our dinner?
Boy: A little while more *Playing game*
10 minutes later
Girl: Hurry up please, I dont wanna eat cold food...
Boy: Okok.
5 minutes later
Girl: I'm gonna eat first.
Boy remain silent and went to shower.

After shower scenario-
Boy: Cant you even wait for me to eat? *Pissed off*
Girl: I told you many times and I'm hungry!
Boy: -.- a few minutes, I always waited for you.

Well, I have got to say, boys are just so into gaming stuff right? and its like an addiction, a drug, they cant get rid of it and are stuck deeply to it. So like what they use to say, if you cna stop them, join them.. Partially it's true but what if you dislike the game or it gives you a puke. For me, I suggest doing some other stuff you like whlile his gaming and set it right that, when is the no game zone and when it is.. But dont overdo it, they need their game zone pretty much and well, you wouldnt want them to not spending time with you too, so balance it.. After that, you have got to stick to it and allow him to without disturbing him(: I cant say I'm damn right so share ur view on ur bf gaming habits and maybe theres a better solution? (:

I believe with hard work and effort, continue to strive and try, all relationship can be work out. PS: If you know that he is not gonna do or make that little effort or turn violent, you know there wont be happiness holding on, be brave and let him go, set urself free! You have all our support!
Always have in mind that, follow ur heart and a path that leads to happiness and stop moving backwards or stop forever. Because the old reason- you will nv know whats waiting for you? So take a look and start moving on. Girls, ladies and women, treat yourself good and well, it is the only way you can then treat others better (:

Signing off,
Elis C.